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What Is Bible-based Counseling?

You need to know what Bible-based counseling
is.
Psychological Theories Have Become Dominant
"Biblical counseling" is a term that has been weakened
by counseling centers across the country which call
themselves biblical, while in reality, they are heavily
influenced by psychological theories of human behavior
and healing. What is the difference between genuine
Biblical Counseling and integrated systems (those which
attempt to integrate psychology and the Bible)? To
answer that, we need to lay out some of the significant
characteristics of Genuine Biblical Counseling.
Based Upon God and Scripture
Genuine Biblical Counseling derives its understanding of
God and Man from the Scriptures. We must base our
practice upon the inspiration, infallibility, inerrancy,
and absolute sufficiency of the Word of God. It is a
fatal error to say that the Bible is sufficient for
salvation, but that we need psychological solutions for
sanctification.
Rests Upon
the Sovereignty of God
Genuine Biblical Counseling has a high view of the
sovereignty and power of God. Psychotherapy thrives
because Christians have allowed a weak view of God to
infiltrate the Church. Jesus addressed this very problem
in Matthew 22:29, when he said, "You are mistaken, not understanding the
Scriptures, or the power of God." To suggest that God
can get us to heaven, but in the meantime, He is
powerless to transform our lives and heal our minds
borders on blasphemy.
Loving and
Gentle
Genuine Biblical Counseling is loving and gentle in the
application of the Scriptures. There is a false and
negative stereotype that exists toward genuine Biblical
counselors-that all we do is look for a sin and pounce
on it harshly. The Bible says, "Brothers, if someone is
caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore
him gently." (Gal. 6:1).
Rooted in
Factual Truth
Genuine Biblical Counseling is focused on truth.
Biblical counselors want to arrive at a true
understanding of God and how He works in our lives. We
want to know the truth about the person we are
counseling and to help him acknowledge and respond to
the truth. We will not focus on dreams, subjective
feelings, and hazy memories unless they can be tested
for accuracy and verified. Repressed memories,
unconscious motivations, and denial of personal
responsibility are not part of genuine Biblical
counseling. While we acknowledge that we can learn from
general observation of human behavior and the physical
world, we must never elevate "general revelation" to an
equal standing with Scripture. It cannot guide our
counseling philosophy or our basic understanding of the
heart of man. The phrase "all truth is God's truth" may
be philosophically correct, but it does not answer the
vital question, how do we know what is true? We should
be cautious in accepting counsel from anyone who defends
his practice with "all truth is God's truth."
Systematic
Theology
Genuine Biblical Counseling is based on solid Biblical
study. A sound systematic theology and Biblical method
of interpretation is essential for the genuine Biblical
counselor. There is no substitute for the counselor
having an in-depth knowledge of the Scriptures and how
to apply them to the problems of daily living.
Work of the
Holy Spirit
Genuine Biblical Counseling is dependent upon the work
of the Holy Spirit. Biblical counselors realize that we
cannot read the hearts of those we counsel. Only God is
able to understand the deepest thoughts, motives,
confusions and sins of the counselee. A Biblical
counselor does not rely upon his own "expertise" or
credentials to delve into the "subconscious" regions of
the mind. Rather, he relies upon the truths of the
Scripture as the Holy Spirit convicts with power (Jn.
16:8, Acts
2:37).
Repentance
and Restoration
Genuine Biblical Counseling leads toward repentance and
restoration. The ultimate goal of the Biblical counselor
is not to merely help his counselee to feel better
temporarily. God is not so concerned with our relief
from pain as He is with the molding of our character
toward Christlikeness. To relieve guilt without dealing
with the issues of the rebellious heart is a disservice
to a fellow believer. Paul writes to the church at
Corinth: "Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do
not regret it. Though I did regret it. I see that my
letter hurt you, but only for a little while-yet now I
am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because
your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became
sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any
way by us. Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to
salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow
brings death." (2Cor.7:8-10).
The Goal of
Maturity
The ultimate goal of Genuine Biblical Counseling is
spiritual maturity. Paul writes in Ephesians 4 about
this goal "to prepare God's people for works of service,
so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all
reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son
of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure
of the fullness of Christ" (vv.12-13).
Degrees Not
Essential
Genuine Biblical Counseling is not dependent upon
degrees, certification, or licensing. Romans
15:14 says, "I myself am convinced, my brothers, that
you yourselves are full of goodness, complete in
knowledge and competent to instruct one another."
Biblical counselors realize that there are only a few
essential qualifications for a competent counselor: one
must have an extensive knowledge of the Scriptures
(Rom.15:14), a good measure of divine wisdom (experience
and common sense under the illumination of the Holy
Spirit) (Col.3:16), goodness (consistent, righteous
lifestyle with a humble attitude) (1Pet.5:5), an ability
to relate to others (Col.4:6), an ability to communicate
(Titus 2:8), and a genuine desire to help others
(1Thess. 5:14)." (from Why Christians Can't Trust
Psychology, by Dr. Ed Bulkley, p.79)
Licensing
May Be Detrimental
Secular licensing does not insure competence or
effectiveness in a counselor. On the contrary, training
that leads to secular certification is likely to impair
one's effectiveness in the counseling ministry. A
Biblical counselor will never allow himself to be
intimidated by secular "experts" or their degrees. Paul
writes, "For the message of the cross is foolishness to
those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved
it is the power of God. For it is written: "I will
destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligence of the
intelligent I will frustrate," (1Co. 1:18,19).
Church
Accountability
Genuine Biblical Counseling is church-based. It is not
profit-motivated and is under the authority of and
accountable to a local body of believers and the pastor
and elders. The professional clinical counseling setting
has no biblical basis and little accountability.
Why Should You Choose Bible-Based Counseling?

Man's search for ways to explain and to "cope" with his
problems has produced many interesting and often
conflicting theories such as: man is basically good and
is able to live up to this potential; man has been
victimized by his conscience, leaving him insecure and
in need of resocialization; man is just a high-level
animal who has been conditioned by his environment and
needs to be reprogrammed; man's basic problem is a lack
of self-esteem and an inability to love himself.
These are only a few of the most popular theories
currently being used in the counseling field. All of
these theories are predictably contrary to God's Word,
since they have been devised by man operating outside
the divine revelation of God (I Corinthians 2:14).
DEPENDING ON THE BIBLE
Is it necessary to turn to these worldly counseling
theories and techniques to solve problems of living?
Isn't it possible that understanding and overcoming
life's problems can be accomplished by applying biblical
truths?
The Bible itself states that the truths contained within
it are entirely sufficient to enable a person to live a
life pleasing to God (II Peter 1:3-4). It provides all
the needed principles and guidance for understanding our
mental processes, analyzing our emotional responses, and
exercising control over our behavior. The laws,
testimonies, precepts, commandments, judgments, and
principles in the Old and New Testaments provide the
only authoritative guide for man's thoughts, words, and
actions (Psalm 19:7-14; Hebrews 4:12).
The promises and authority of God contained in His Word
offer the basis for a vital and abundant life. The
Scripture contains the solutions to every problem of
attitude, relationship, communication, conduct, and
behavior (II Timothy 3:16-17).
DEVELOPING BIBLICAL HABITS
Biblical principles can be applied in a systematic
manner to overcome any problem of life and are not a
mixture of man-contrived theories sprinkled with a few
Bible verses unrelated to problem solving. Instead,
these biblical principles provide the essential
foundation for any person to change his unbiblical
patterns of living and establish new habits of biblical
behavior. While extensive and unalterable, these
biblical principles are not meant to be all inclusive
due to the living and active characteristics of God's
Word (Hebrews 4:12).
In counseling that is true to God's Word, a biblical
counselor will collect enough information to enable him
to recognize and understand the problem in order to
formulate the biblical solution. Counselees are
encouraged to confront the failures and shortcomings of
their personal lives from a biblical point of view
(Matthew 7:1-5). In doing this, they should begin to see
the necessity of turning their focus away from their own
desires(II Corinthians 5:14-15; Galatians 5:17, 19-21;
James 4:1-3) and should determine to live in a manner
pleasing to God (II Corinthians 5:9; Ephesians 4:1-3;
Colossians 1:10-12).
In order for biblical counseling to be effective, both
the counselor and the counselee must be deeply committed
to the Lordship of Jesus Christ and the authority of
God's Word. They must be continually committed to "walk
in a manner worthy of the Lord to please Him in all
respects, bearing fruit in every good work and
increasing in the knowledge of God" (Colossians 1:10).
This commitment will change a person's focus from loving
self to a focus on loving God and loving others in
response to God's gracious love demonstrated in Jesus
Christ (Matthew 18:21-35; Romans 5:8; Ephesians 4:32; l
John 4:11).
APPLICATION OF BIBLICAL PRINCIPLES
Even if the counselee has little or no concept of a
biblical relationship with God and a limited knowledge
of what is meant by a sincere commitment to Christ,
biblical counseling can be extremely effective. As the
biblical counselor continually focuses the counselee's
attention on the authority and sufficiency of Scripture
and explores the counselee's problems from a biblical
standpoint, the necessity for a wholehearted commitment
to Christ will be repeatedly presented. As the
counselee begins to view his problems from a biblical
standpoint, he will begin to understand that the peace
and joy promised by God do not depend on his financial
situation, his work environment, the behavior of his
spouse, or on any other external circumstance. A
discouraged or despondent counselee can gain great hope
as he learns from Scripture that God's peace and joy can
be his as he depends solely on his relationship with God
through Jesus Christ (John 14:27, 16:33).
BIBLICAL ANALYSIS OF A PROBLEM
In analyzing problems from a scriptural perspective,
biblical counselors recognize three levels of every
problem.
1. THE FEELING OR PERCEPTION LEVEL
A person will often seek counseling when there is a
disruption or discomfort of feelings, most notably a
lack of peace and joy. Following a scriptural pattern,
biblical counselors carefully explore the feeling level
of a problem in order to define the nature of the
problem being presented and the what, when, where, and
how of the problem as depicted in Genesis 3:8-13, 4:6; I
Kings 19:9-14; Proverbs 18:13, 17; Luke 24:13-35; John
20:11-18.
2. THE DOING LEVEL
Biblical counselors attempt to help the counselee
identify specific thoughts, words, and actions which
violate biblical injunctions. A person focused on self
tends to allow his feelings to dictate his behavior,
regardless of what effect this may have on others.
Living by one's feelings inevitably leads to doing the
wrong things, which leads to more problems and further
violations of biblical principles. For our instruction
(Romans 15:4), numerous examples of this self-centered
pattern of behavior are given in Scripture (Genesis
3:6-13, 4:5-8, 37:11-33; II Samuel 11:1-27, 13:1-33; II
Chronicles 26:16-21).
However, God's Word says that all of one's thoughts,
words, and actions should result from a commitment to
please God by obeying Him (John 14:15; II Corinthians
5:9-15; Colossians 1:10). When a counselee begins to
obey God, regardless of his feelings (Romans 6:12-13; II
Corinthians 5:15; Galatians 5:17), then God's promised
blessings are available to him (Genesis 4:7; James
1:25). Foremost among these blessings are lasting peace,
joy, and righteousness (Romans 14:17).
PROBLEMS CAN BE OVERCOME
While trials and tribulations are a part of life, God
has a purpose for all of them (Romans 5:3-5, 8:28; James
1:2-4). No matter what difficulties arise, God has
promised that a believer in Christ can be an overcomer
in every situation (Romans 8:35-37; I Corinthians 10:13;
I John 5:4-5) as he responds in obedience to God's Word
(James 1:25). Even though obedience to God may not be
easy (Romans 7:18-19), it can be done as a response of
love for what Jesus Christ has accomplished for a
believer (John 14:15; Romans chapter 6; l John 5:3; II
John 1:6). Following the example of our Lord Jesus
Christ, a child of God is to remain obedient even during
times of suffering (Hebrews 5:8; I Peter 2:20-22),
looking beyond present circumstances to the glory that
will be revealed (Romans 8:18; II Corinthians
4:16-18).Today, there is a critical need in the Body of
Christ to return to the exclusive use of God's Word in
overcoming personal problems and counseling others to do
likewise in their difficulties (II Corinthians 1:3-5).
The biblical principles contained in the courses of
study are based solely on the Word of God and not on
human assumptions, opinions, experiences, theories, or
any other secular philosophies.
PRESUPPOSITIONS OF BIBLICAL COUNSELING
In His Word, God has given us everything we need to live
in a manner that pleases Him (II Peter 1:3-4). We must
not integrate man's theories with biblical truth in
order to face and deal with our problems and live a
victorious life. As a matter of fact, Scripture promises
us that when we seek to place God's Word on a level with
man's thinking, serious consequences occur (Proverbs
1:22-32, 14:12, 30:5-6; Isaiah 5:20-21; Romans 8:6-8; I
Corinthians 3:1 9-20).
Biblical counseling is based upon the biblical teaching
that we will each give an account of ourselves to God.
Even though believers in Christ will not be condemned
for their sins in eternity as will unbelievers, there
are consequences for sins (Ezekiel 18:20; Colossians
3:25). Counselees are shown that they are responsible
before God solely for their own thoughts, words, and
actions and that they are not responsible for changing
anyone else's life .In learning to assume responsibility
for one's own behavior, a counselee needs to understand
the conflict between his old self and his new nature in
Christ. A counselee must determine, by an act of his
will, to lay aside his old way of life with its lusts
and deception and to begin to act in a way that reflects
the new Christ-like nature God has given him (Ephesians
4:22-24; Colossians 3:5-17). A counselee must develop
godly patterns of thought, speech, and actions if he is
to have a renewed mind and be successful in living a
life that corresponds to the new nature (Romans 12:2;
Ephesians 4:23-24).
ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS OF BIBLICAL COUNSELlNG
In every biblical counseling session, four elements are
emphasized:
1. UNDERSTANDING THE PROBLEM
Gaining God's perspective on any difficulty is important
for those involved in facing and dealing with problems
biblically (Proverbs 3:5-6; Isaiah 55:8-9; Romans 5:3-5,
8:28-29; James 1:2-4). You must begin to look honestly
at yourself in light of God's Word (Matthew 7:1-5; Luke
6:42-49; I Corinthians 11:31). Understanding a problem
requires that biblical inquiry be made (Proverbs 18:13,
17; II Timothy 3:16-17; James 1:19) and truthful answers
be given (Ephesians 4:15, 25), in order for the total
spectrum of the problem to be revealed (Mark 7:20-23;
James 1:22-25, 4:17).A biblical counselor asks questions
and listens carefully to the responses so sufficient
facts can be gathered to understand the problem. God's
solutions are practical and personally applicable to
every person's problems, so it is necessary to address
the true problems - not merely "fix the feeling" or
manipulate the circumstances (Proverbs 18:2, 13; James
1:19).
2. HOPE
In His Word, God has promised that He will not let you
be tried or tempted, suffer "stress" or anxiety, or face
any problem beyond your endurance. Instead He will
provide ample help and direction in every situation as
you deal with the problem His way (I Corinthians 10:13;
Hebrews 4:15-16). The biblical counselor can confidently
assure the counselee that there is hope in every
situation. The counselor demonstrates this hope from the
Scripture whenever it is needed.
3. CHANGE
You must learn how to lay aside (or "put off") the old
self-centered habits and destructive thoughts (such as
anxiety, bitterness, and resentment). Instead, you are
to "put on" biblical patterns of thought, words, and
action (Romans 6:6-7, 12-13; Ephesians 4:22-32;
Philippians 4:6-9; Colossians 3:5-17).
4. PRACTICE
You must take action to put God's solutions into
practice in your everyday activities. If you hear the
Word and do not put it into practice, you deceive
yourself and your problems become worse. But if you
become a doer of the Word, God has promised that you
will be blessed and will experience His peace and joy in
spite of any turmoil around you (Psalm 85:8-10; Isaiah
32:17; John 15:10-12, 16:33; Hebrews 5:14; James
1:22-25, 3:14-18; I Peter 3:8-12).
MEDICAL ISSUES
Biblical counselors believe in considering your total
health. Some problems are organic in origin. It is
recommended that a complete physical exam be performed
to rule out purely physical causes. It is also
recognized that wrong behavior and sinful attitudes can
bring on a host of medical problems. Whenever possible,
a relationship needs to be established with a
conscientious Christian physician to help evaluate
physical issues.
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